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Mentoring practice / ECNM insight

The qualities behind a useful mentoring relationship.

Experience has value when an adult can use it with care, judgement and respect for another person’s direction.

Bring experience with humility.

A mentor’s hindsight can offer perspective. It should open a conversation rather than become a set of instructions about how a young person must live.

Build the relationship.

Listening, reliability and thoughtful communication help a mentor understand what matters to the young person. Notice how they receive information and encouragement.

Exercise judgement.

Consider timing, boundaries and the purpose of a challenge. Effective practice requires preparation and reflection as well as belief in potential.

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