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Confidence & identity / ECNM insight

There is more than one way to show ability.

A school result can tell us something useful without capturing everything a young person can contribute.

Look in different settings.

Notice how a child responds to language, numbers, movement, music, practical tasks or other people. These observations can open a conversation about interests and strengths.

Ask a wider question.

Instead of deciding whether a child is clever, explore where they feel capable and what they enjoy learning. Avoid replacing one limiting label with another.

Offer a chance to use a strength.

An activity or responsibility can help a young person demonstrate something that has been overlooked. Let that recognition inform practical goals and opportunities.

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