Make time to consider the story.
Think about the encouragement you received, what you needed and what you learned. You do not have to find a positive meaning in every difficult experience.
Distinguish your experience from theirs.
A young person’s life may differ from yours. Personal insight can support empathy while curiosity keeps their own account central.
Consider your contribution now.
Ask how your experience informs the adult you want to be. Preparation and reflective practice help turn that intention into purposeful support.
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